THE REAL CONCEPT BEHIND FORGIVENESS

"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong. Always forgive your enemies – nothing annoys them so much. The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget."

Forgiving people is an act you should imbibe in yourself - but it doesn't mean you should be stupid by allowing people to hurt us as they wish. 

There's nothing greater than learning to forgive and forget. It shows how strong you're and how willing you're to move forward in life. Life is full of ups and down, people who you have the utmost trust and respect for, can easily hurt and let you down, and most at times it's painful, even your loved ones can hurt you worse than a stranger would, that's life but how you forgive and let go is what's important - if you want to live a fulfilling and good life. 

Forgiveness is an act you should master and take importantly, when you forgive and let go, you free your mind. Imagine harbouring so many pains you get from people hurting you, in your heart, it weighs you down so much, and you might not even know it. More so, it hinders you from trusting the right people and expressing true love to the people who really cares and loves you genuinely - all because you've been hurt and you've refused to forgive easily, so being open to loving and trusting people is something that scares you.

Be strong, learn to forgive and forget, but most importantly, don't put yourself in a position where you have to feel hurt and this means, being around trustworthy and loving people.

How do you know them? 

Your instincts will always tell you who not to trust and trust, follow your instincts when choosing people you want to spend your time & do certain things with. 

"The truth is that everyone is going to hurt you one way or the other, you just have to find the ones worth fighting for."

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